This is what we should be doing.
You might come across with feelings that your efforts are gone in vein while your shortcomings are highlighted and criticized. Well, one point. You’ve to prove to no-one. You’ve already achieved this much that you can satisfy your brain. You can tell your brain that what needs to be done is already accomplished. And, if it’s not, then it WILL BE. There is no need to be worried about cause you’ll not die until you perform your part of duty. So, what’s the point?
You’ve to prove to no-one. So why to give a damn to other’s mocking and criticism? The reason is:
1. You’ve trained your mind to take inputs of the people who shouldn’t be around you.
2. You’ve let others program you with their gibberish thoughts.
My point is, let go of the negative energy around you. You’ve to prove to no-one. Try perfecting what’s already achieved. And there is no fate but we make. Sorry about quoting Terminator Series’ here. DO NOT let negative people around you or affect you. The game is already won, and won quite significantly.
If suffering weren’t this much intense, glory wouldn’t be Brobdingnagian. So, why do we care or blow off our minds by remembering about our sufferings? Guess?
Cause our mind is programmed to think about the sufferings to suffer again. Why don’t we re-program it?
Because we don’t WANT to.
So what’s THE solution?
At the end of the day, the peaceful death is what matters the most. May we all get all the negativity off from our minds.
This is so like me.
You always get what you deserve. Accept it .The sooner the better. Someone out there will always be more favoured and luckier than you. You’re Hard work will always go unnoticed and unknown. You’ll probably die ordinary. The pain of being born ordinary and dying ordinary will never be known to others like known to you. Your mediocre life and your mediocre existence and your mediocre emotions will the the ultimate reason of your destruction.
Even the Love that you’ll find in your life will be mediocre. Everything you do will be dull, You’ll be dull. Life around you will be dull. Not a thing can you do to change that. You were born to Lose but you’re falling miserably even at Losing.How unworthy is your existence?But you can’t even question yourself. You’re uncertain to what lies ahead. The depth of your failure or the intensity of your…
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We might have suffered by the attitudes of people around us. We might have cried, hallucinated and stuttered. But, THAT does not matter anymore. We have moved on. So forgive them anyway. They might be self-centered and cruel but forgive them anyway. Cause, as Mother Teresa says, it’s between you and God. It was never between you and them. Let God handle them. Move on. Your performance would be enough to shut their mouths. Move on. After all, it’s between you and God.
Today I has nothing in my mind to write about but I WANT to. Writing in between of work, I want to share an experience that overreacting or reacting instantaneously after an event makes you WEAKER, judgmental and more prone to giving up on YOURSELF and on others/things. Do NOT react quickly. Observation is half experience as per belief of my friend. How do you react is what matters after all, my friends.
They say, I’m not ethically human. They say, I’m bad, westernised and religiously-not-well-behaved. But what they do these days is historically not forgiven. We all go from the darkness, we all went. It’s THE efforts which judge your intentions. Your red soary eyes and your trembling hands are enough to tell you what’s going on. After all, those who’re on the right path should not worry about the barking of STREET DOGS. This is Fahad Naeem writing this post.
Things do change. They do change for you. Your tears won’t change them. Your strength of balls would. Get up. Fuck up the barking dogs and roar.
There is no fate but what we make.
We all have our sixth-sense. We all get signs outsides of us. But instincts are what we should follow. If we are getting a feeling that something is going wrong and we should change our course, then we SHOULD. If we don’t then we will continue to suffer. Instincts lead us to sense that after all of our efforts we’re not getting subsequent results. We should try, try and try but not the same way. But by changing our course.
Follow your instincts. Follow it.
But God has the best knowledge of all.
You don’t need to go to a new country to start a brand new start. To start a new life, you just need a new brain, a new thinking. Say that you’ll fight till the last, say that and I own you.
To pay for your tears, you don’t need to see dreams, say that you’ll not surrender, say that to yourselves.
To feel that your legs have immense power to reach to the destiny, you don’t need to have a forever sleep, say that you have immense will power to stand still, to stand for your immortal cause.
Say that, you’ll not die until all of it is not achieved. Say that, you’re not giving up against your inner enemy, say that and I’m going to own you.
It’s a day to day life when we want to write/say or when we want to remain silent. But, being silent over the issues one has been facing since his childhood is not a good thing to do, I feel.
We all have faced some kind of criticism over what we do, say or feel. Some face a lot of them or some face some of them. Some call it POSITIVE criticism or some call if NEGATIVE. I feel that I have a lot of NEGATIVE criticism. People come, see and criticise me as if I’ve stolen their goats. They used to mock me. They used to make fun of my humbleness, my feelings and my achievements i.e. God has blessed upon me. I have witnessed that those who used to mock me fall behind me even when I was an average guy.
After chain of events, I have learnt that at the end your life belongs to God. Do not fall behind cause of the mocking of others. Let God deal with those people.
Make a cause. Work for it. Cry for it. And have a don’t care attitude towards people. Your life and God’s rule should be applied. Cause, there is no fate but what we make not what others force us to make.